Thursday, November 22, 2007

my oWn vErSiOn oF LeTTiNg gO....

“My oWn vErSiOn of

LeTtInG Go……..”

Letting go …… of someone is one of the valiant decision I’ve ever made in my life.. Yes, a very painful decision yet showing respect of oneself…. Letting go, is a journey that never ends…. Why? It’s because it will come over and over again….. That is life, and we must accept what reality brought us.

Letting go………. is a mistaken belief that somebody must push a relationship in the direction where you are no longer happy anymore…. The only thing I lose when I let go of somebody is TIME…..coz memories will definitely remain….. FEAR itself and not the Pain is the toughest battle to stand for …… As a normal being, we care what others might say on the situation…… But why bother hence, I am stronger enough to face it all… even anything that frightens me…..

Letting go…….. is a very natural thing….. You can’t always have the BEST at all times……Letting go of somebody follows the realization that holding on is a very draining energy…….. And definitely hurts! But sometimes, it happens very effortless when you are positive, open-minded and ready to accept…… and of course if you have no other choice to make…..

Letting go……. does not mean giving up…….it’s just letting your eyes see the truth…. And makes you realize that there is always something better that awaits you in the future….. Like a sunrise that is full of life and blessings. I just remember what I’ve said to my best friend when he experienced the same….. “If you lose someone better, the BEST one is coming your way soon”……

Letting go……. means widening your insights, giving higher understanding…… and giving oneself….. Letting go….. is starting over and over again….. Not exactly creating a new me or you but enhancing oneself and be matured enough to learned from the past…… Say goodbye to the past, and say hello to the present…… Go out and enjoy life coz every present moment is always new…… and new is always right now…. Letting go…… means LET ‘S CELEBRATE LIFE!


“I am enthusiastic about who I am becoming…. I know that no one sincerely asks for a new life until they are thoroughly dissatisfied with the old me…… I am and I let go… when I allow myself to let go of what is old, I say true to what is NEW.”


Scotty's Princess said...

Nice post 'te.. I understand what you must be feeling now, I know the story behind, remember? Hehehe.. There are things we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, it's a beginning of a new life. I know you deserve someone much, much better. You're a great woman and you deserve to be happy. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is a hard decision to make yet perhaps the best thing to do... I'm wishing you the love and happiness that you so truly deserve. I know you are a strong woman. Somehow along the course of your life, you learn about yourself and realize there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made.

There will come a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person have stopped loving us but because we have found out that they'd be happier if we let go. Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one that hurts you the most. But i believe it's the painful process of loving. We all go through it.

Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellphone ng puso mo to know His wisdom, hehe.. Just want you to smile 'te..

I know one day, someone will come along. And if you really love someone, never let go, don't believe that letting go means that you love best, instead, fight for your love. That's what TRUE LOVE is...

--chic-- said...

sana lahat ng tao kagaya mo..
to let go of someone for her own sake..
yung mag-move on na maluwag sa kalooban..
too bad someone can't be like you..
hanga ako sau...