Thursday, November 22, 2007

mY oWn wAy oF cOuPiNg uP!


My way of coping up!!!

"When I lost you, I was the one who loved you the most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you or more than I’d love you but you will never be loved again the way that I did."…… bRegiE

Acceptance and Open-mindedness……

It takes time for sorrow to go away. We may leave or be left. We endure the crying, fitful sleep, blues, loss of concentration, longing, broken trust, fury, and reshuffling of different emotions. Almost everyone thinks that they would not feel normal again in facing it through but human spirit lives on…. acceptance and open-mindedness works-out and it’s really amazing…

Faith and Trust………

When somebody come into contact with distress, of course negative energies slides in and it would be silly to think that the world is covered with darkness though it’s shining… so dull though it’s exciting… so lonely though its full of love and pale though it’s very colorful… It’s really abnormal isn’t it? But it’s true…. Agony really rocks our world… Coping up with such emotions is never easy for me, but little by little, with strong faith in GOD and believing in myself am fleeting it through day by day…

Time Heal the Wounds:

Not all love stories has a happy ending thus, failure, pain and heartbreak pops out to the open… But every wound always heals after a while. How long will that take? That depends on how deep it is, what’s the caused and how you deal with loss, and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things you’ve encountered..

Getting it over…….

Getting over can take a couple of days to many weeks — and sometimes even months and maybe a year or so… But going into the process of healing… A painful downfall can become the catalyst for independent personal growth, deeper wisdom, positive life changes, healing issues from the past, and entering better relationships in the future.

I haven’t move on yet… but for sure am coping up…

1 comment:

Scotty's Princess said...

I love reading all your blogs te... I can see right through you and i admire you for your strength... I know u can pass through it all with flying colors...I just know u will be happy one day, u are a very good person and God won't let you down. I know it would be impossible to be happy every second of every day because afflictions and trials are part of the package. But true happiness does not depend on our circumstances. It cannot depend on our circumstances because there is too much sadness, too many unhappy situations which come into each of our lives. That's the unfortunate fact of life; everything does not always turn out the way we would like for it to be.

Just don't dwell too much on it te and im sure you'll be okay soon. Siya ang nawalan dahil sa hinayaan ka nyang makawala pa, hehe.. Grabeng spirit, hehe...

I believe some difficult things come into our lives so that we can learn and grow from them. Others happen because of our own actions. But whatever the reason that there is heartbreak, it doesn't help to dwell on the heartbreak or the reason.

Just trust that there are better days ahead and go on with life, always searching for the things which are lasting and eternal, discarding that which is temporary.

As hard as it is to believe, some good things can come out of even the worst situation. If you live with the philosophy that there is always hope and things will get better, you will be happier.

Kaya mo yan te.. I'm just here when you have no one to talk to... STAY SAFE AND GOD SPEED ALL THE WAY!!!!